If We have Such A Great Economy, Why Are Women Selling Sex To Survive?

Samantha Inesta
Human Rights Fellow
Founder/Director
BeaSister2aSister

When we turn on the television big news media tells us over and over how unemployment is down which translates to everyone is working and the economy is recovering. It’s the details that they refuse to let leak out because either it will make the president look bad (if your watching FOX) or it will decrease morale of the country. But we all know the reality is that unemployment may be down but people are working at jobs that are barely paying them a living wage forcing them to seek government assistance to fill in the gaps that the current employment is not providing. This is a crisis that affects everyone-but mostly women and very much so, single women. This past decade has been a difficult one for a lot of people and it seems to be bleeding into the new decade that has just begun keeping everyone at a standstill. As the job market gets tighter, the need for sustainable employment becomes harder to obtain. The need for food, housing, medical insurance and other basic needs have become out of reach for a lot, especially young women who are idealists and felt there was a world of opportunity out there for them. Even those that were privileged enough to get a college education find themselves in the same boat as the underprivileged.

So is this a problem of the economy? Or is this a tactic to keep young women trapped in desperate situations where they must make decisions that will negatively affect their future? What ever it is, it has become not only a public health crisis for them but a breakdown of how they are viewed in this new age of misogyny and male patriarchy. In the current economic climate what was once accepted and welcomed has now morphed into special and preferential treatment of the elite and well connected. Many young women are wondering what went wrong, why are they having to resort to a money making decision that degrades and dehumanizes them while hurting their future should they decide to stop? This hurts women of color the most, they are the most marginalized and more often then not the ones who are kept from a better education or quality of life. Because of this, it has pushed the hand of the sex worker lobby to put out the damaging message of “Sex work is work”. This suggests that women have no other recourse, if they can’t get a job that pays them a living wage whether they’ve gone to college or not, they will have to walk into something they never thought they would ever have to do.

Getting into and staying in a prestigious school is also not as accessible as it is to those who have the financial means or support rather than those who don’t. It has opened a door to the “SugarDaddy” phenomenon where young women are paired up with rich older men (all married) that will “fund” their education or career in exchange for their “companionship”. They call themselves SugarBabies but really they are an escort for men who will most likely ask for more than just a dinner partner. It also makes these young women subservient and controlled by these men who probably have daughters at home the same age and also attending college. This whole concept and the usage of the word Daddy basically alludes to the whole porn message that having a Daddy isn’t a positive father figure but an incestuous male who requires sexual satisfaction in exchange for his help and support. Every time young women are seeking any type of assistance that will help them succeed, there is always a male entrepreneur starting a business that will force women to prostitute themselves for a better life- a systematic plan to derail their success. Getting back to sex work, as much as this is a hotly debated subject, it’s no wonder that desperate and marginalized young women are calling it “work”, they feel they have no other choice.

They say prostitution is the oldest profession, that’s because male dominance has kept it alive for so long. The payoff for them is access to a variety of women that are at there will whenever they are in the mood for something they can’t get anywhere else. This economy is failing because of this, if the women in the country fall, everything else will too. If society and government really want to see the economy boom, they need to help all women flourish no matter the educational, cultural or ethnic background they come from. If the only outlet they have for surviving is sex work, everyone loses. There needs to be an end to the great lie of prosperity that is spoon fed to the masses by the news media. Capitalism is sacrificing young women and making them collateral damage in an era of low wages, poverty and unattainable opportunity. How can the United States send a message of freedom for women when they are kept in sexual bondage in exchange for survival? This is the great stain of the country that they will never be able to wash out, especially on the world stage.

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How War & Conflict Open The Door to Racism & Sexual Slavery

Samantha Inesta
Human Rights Fellow
Founder/Director
BeaSister2aSister

When there are rumors or escalations of war everyone weighs in on how they think it should go and more often then not it’s visceral, racist and misogynistic. In a recent tweet by Aubrey Huff who plays for the San Francisco Giants, he basically outlined his version of “freedom & liberation for Iranian women. He feels they should be grateful to him and all white American men by invoking an old harem stereotype of fanning him with feathers while feeding him grapes. However, as most of us in the intelligent world know, Harems were basically forced prostitution rings. Women are kept in bondage to their “Master” while satisfying all of his needs, even his sexual ones. Aubrey Huff seems to be alluding to the fact that Iranian women are only good for one thing because they are not white American born and therefore should be treated as slaves-sex slaves to be exact.

Rape, torture, trafficking and sexual bondage is nothing new in times of war, the problem is it’s always overlooked because it happened to women as if we are an acceptable form of collateral damage. In the years of 1932-1945 the Japanese army employed Comfort Women stations all over Asia in order to “help out” the soldiers fighting while satisfying their needs. Hundreds of young South Korean women and girls were kidnapped by the Japanese government and sent to be sex slaves to soldiers who did the most inhumane things to them. They were prisoners of a war that they had no part of. Korean women were looked at as less than to the Japanese and were treated as such. This type of insidious racism cost a lot of these women their lives. They weren’t all Korean either, they came from various parts of Asia, Dutch East Indies, Portuguese Timor, New Guinea, Netherlands and Australia. Anywhere there was a Japanese Territory, there was a comfort station that forced women into a nightmare.

Let’s not forget the gang rape and murder of the 14 year old Iraqi girl Abeer Qassim Hamza al-Janabi on March 12, 2006 and the killing of her family except for her two brothers by American military army men in Mahmudiyah. This was a deliberate premeditated plan to destroy this girl and her family simply because they were Iraqi, the enemy, not worthy of life. These men of the 502 infantry knew exactly what they were doing and how they wanted to do it. There really was no mental instability there, just hatred. And as much as the U.S. military tries to cover these situations up there are many open cases of rape against commanding officers by women who work alongside them are supposed to be considered their colleagues. Excuses and suppression continually push these cases to the back burner further adding to the trauma they experienced. And yet they are still trying to recruit as many young women they can.

Many more stories are out there of foreign militias entering other countries to enslave women sexually and see them as inhumane and there for their pleasure. It should be no surprise considering how some men are trying to roll back the clock on women’s human rights and keep us subservient to them and war is a great platform for them to do it. People have taken sides, it’s us vs. them, they’re different so they must be bad, they’re animals so we must treat them that way and so on. The one thing to remember also is that some of the men that are inflicting this type of violence usually have a wife and kids at home. They think they’re out there being a hero or parents who believe their son is defending the country and fighting for freedoms. War is used as a excuse a scapegoat, it’s wartime, you can’t help what happens. The women who survive that will never forget.

In the United States women of all walks of life experience rape, violence and trafficking, this is daily life for some women. Racism plays a big part because there are large numbers of women and girls of color who experience all of it more than others. In turn when there is a conflict or threat of war involved, it is all of a sudden acceptable to talk about raping and enslaving women from other countries. If we are seeing it happen in a country who is the dominating force and the occupier of other nations and we are not living in a wartime scenario within our borders then imagine how much worse it is abroad. The bottom line is Iranian women or any women for that matter do not need saving by white men in exchange for eternal gratitude at their expense. When we allow tweets like Aubrey Huff’s or any language that portrays non-white women as less than, you open that door that justifies raping, trafficking and killing women & girls in times of war or even peace.

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As We Say Goodbye To 2019, We Ring In a Brand New Decade

Samantha Inesta
Human Rights Fellow
Founder/Director
BeaSister2aSister

As we close one decade we open a door to a new one filled with renewed hopes, dreams and promises. These past few years have been shown to be the most turbulent with the Trump presidency of 2016 that opened doors of racism, misogyny and violence. 2017 saw the first Women’s March to counteract the new administration that saw women as something that should be controlled and have decisions made for with no regard for a female opinion. The #MeT00, and #churchtoo movements grew calling out sexual predators in every sector, public demonstrations calling on men to stop raping women became commonplace on social media. Uprisings and protests littered the landscapes of most of the global world birthing growing pains for a new democracy.

Just in this year alone we have seen a much needed massive attack against the porn industry that has taken masculinity, relationships, marriages and lives away creating a public health crisis. Sex workers vs. trafficking survivors opened up the doors for a bill that will fully decriminalize prostitution giving the pimps and sex buyers full control while increasing victims and dis-empowering women who say it’s “work”. We are definitely on the cusp of the biggest paradigm shift this country has ever seen. The old order of subjugation, oppression and submissiveness has left the building. What we are seeing know is a rage that some might say is long overdue. Feminism is still being attacked as a man-hating ideology and not a movement of women’s human rights. There is still a lot to be done but we are making progress, more men are starting to speak out about the life altering problems of porn and the toxic masculinity it creates. Hopefully soon we will see the head of the octopus explode and people will see with new eyes and realize the destruction they inflicted on women and society by normalizing porn.

As hard as these issues can be to blog as well as work with women who have survived it, I am happy to be part of the conversation that will somehow lead to the solution for women and girls everywhere. This is truly a global issue and effects all facets of life, economy (personal & global), and social constructs. When you speak about war and conflict, there is trafficking, when you talk espionage or politics whether on the world stage or locally there is always rape, pedophilia and sometimes pornography. It is in the very fiber of every society around the world, this cannot be pushed aside as a “women’s issue”, it’s an every man, woman and child issue. There’s no more pushing it aside we must face it and do everything we can to change it as a civilization.

Social media has proven to be the main medium to fight these issues but not without push back and nasty attacks from cowards behind a screen most likely in a dark room. Even though I connect with those who are like minded, there’s always room for attacks. Journalism has always been a desire of mine and so I connect with journalists who have an international mindset, love what they do and it shows and always bring truth to power. I learn a lot from them and it has made me better at what I do, at least I think so anyway. And although I don’t know any of them personally I am grateful for who they are and how they show professionalism in the face of opposition. I write these blogs to not only draw attention to the issue of human trafficking but to show how it is connected to all that the world is going through in one form of another. It’s not a new concept, it’s an old issue that is just now getting the attention it deserves.

To those of you who have read my blog and liked what you read, thank you for taking the time it’s very much appreciated. I may not be the most popular kid in the neighborhood but that’s not what I’m striving for. I’m glad to have a seat at the table and express my views on humanitarian issues that are killing this world. My hope for this new decade of 2020 it that real change comes, women and girls lives are restored to their rightful place and every society learns to care for them instead of making them collateral damage. I hope that humanitarian crisis decrease and no more children are caged up with parents sick wondering where they are. I hope that dignity is given to the poor and marginalized and they are lifted up with everyone else. And most of all, I hope that violence against women, rape, sexual assault, trafficking and porn become illegal and a thing of the past. Let’s all hope together and bring in 2020 with sense of purpose and change.

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A Country That Won’t Help It’s Own

Samantha Inesta
Human Rights Fellow
Founder/Director
BeaSister2aSister

Poverty is everywhere and has hit the United States pretty hard. Even though the rates have lowered, according to the US Census Bureau, that doesn’t mean there aren’t a lot of Americans living in poverty. It is thought that as long as you have a job and you’re making some kind of money, you’re okay. This is a lie that most people have to face on a daily basis. A large majority of those receiving public assistance from the government are actually working, they’re just not getting paid enough to live, or take care or their families. Of the $3.7 trillion federal budget, only 10% of it is being used for safety net programs to help people who have lost jobs and suddenly find themselves on unemployment and unable to get another job right away-or at all. More of the budget goes into defense and security (about 16%) than it does to help Americans get on their feet again. Part of this is because society has bought into the myth that anyone receiving government benefits are lazy, refuse to work, have children so they can get more money or once they have benefits they stop looking for work. This lie is mostly used against people of color. But because there is such a stigma attached to it, once a person finds themselves in that situation, they are ashamed to ask for help because they don’t want to be categorized as such even though it is there for them. You’re made to feel like a criminal, a leech, a drain on society.

The US is definitely a country divided, not only by racism, misogyny and politics but by rich and poor. President Trump is threatening to take away public benefits like food stamps and cash assistance which means the poverty rate will jump to an all time high. For a president who calls people that need help lazy when all he ever did was help himself and his buddies is egocentric at best. This will affect women the most because they are the caregivers and single moms who are trying to provide a good life for themselves and their children. Women working two and three jobs are still lacking but try to make up for it with cash assistance and programs that help struggling mothers. Single women feel the sting as well, they are not provided with much help because it is thought that being single doesn’t require much. As if they don’t need rent money, money for food and medical care. It will be worse for women coming out of trafficking and domestic violence situations. It’s hard enough for them to find work due to their past but taking away something that will help them make a step in the right direction is unscrupulous. Putting these women in a poverty cycle and then demonizing them for taking part in what’s being offered is absurd. Employment is a big factor for these women to survive and overcome but if they have a low quality of life, finding a job will make it just as difficult.

With this type of standard of living the US cannot afford to be a capitalist state anymore, they will need to move to socialist reforms. Things like, food, housing, education and medical attention continue to become a privilege not a right for most people. How can one of the wealthiest countries in the world allow their citizens to be treated in this way? One reason is elitism has taken over as the new socioeconomic platform on which the rich are running on. They use gaslighting tactics on how great the economy is and businesses are hitting their financial goals at a record high and life is good. That picture turns gray when you mix the reality of the same businesses not paying their employees a living wage, housing is out of reach and education leads to mounds of student debt. Not to mention exorbitant doctors fees for visits and necessary medication. The circus that is our political sphere is overwrought by hard working people and their families wondering when they will be able to afford a home, get a better job and actually have a politician that will really help them and not pay lip service to appease higher earning constituents.

The European Union has a whole litany of political, social and economic rights that help their citizens improve their daily lives. Some EU countries make sure that their citizens are employed and and treated well. Businesses do not impose the “At-Will” clause in their employment contracts the way the US does, there is a little more security. For instance, in the US if you come in wearing a shirt your boss doesn’t like or your physical appearance isn’t pleasing he/she can terminate your position and they don’t have to tell you why. This is a huge contributor to poverty and lose of employment. All of this equal opportunity legal requirements doesn’t really mean anything.

This all ties into human rights and how this society and it’s citizens view what is given to some people and taken away from others with no form of explanation as to why or how they got to that point. The only way your rights are protected is if you have a documented illness or disability, if your a perfectly healthy human being willing to work it’s a problem. Everyone’s rights as someone who lives and works in the US should be protected no matter what physical or mental state you’re in. It’s human decency. To pull the rug out from under someone and then deny them access to benefits that will help them and their family is just cruel. The image of this country on the world stage is a picture of riches and prosperity but once the smoke clears that picture is a scene of desperate faces, hungry children and adults just trying to make it in one of the most riches countries in the world.

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Job Hunting vs. Labor Trafficking

Samantha Inesta
Human Rights Fellow
Director/BeaSister2aSister

Millions of people all over the world are engaging in the job hunting market for various reasons. They may not be happy in their current position, they’re looking for more money or they are in desperate need of a job and haven’t found one yet. Whatever the case may be, looking for a job in today’s market coupled with fraudulent cyber imposters trying to get you to sign onto a position that doesn’t exist, can be risky business. But there is a more insidious plot happening here. Most fake job postings are usually by scammers who just want you to lose money. You know, the ones that automatically think you’re a perfect fit and it just happens to be a work from home position but you must purchase the equipment you need for your home office. The “company” will send you a check instructing you to cash it and buy the office essentials. After you’ve purchased what you need, lo and behold the check bounces and you are left paying for printers and computers you will never use and your potential boss is nowhere to be found. So now your out thousand of dollars and no job.

As horrible as that seems, that’s actually the lighter side of it. Within all of these charlatan recruiters, HR people and non-existent corporations there are also traffickers who are interwoven in the scheming process to find people they can exploit. Small to large scale recruitment agencies play a huge role in abusive recruitment practices that lead to trafficking in persons. There many deceptive mechanisms that are used when luring an unsuspecting job seeker. The job is not what was originally described, the pay is much lower and the hours longer etc. Forcing someone to sign a contract that binds them to the employer and creates a sort of debt bondage relationship. Individual brokers hired by these recruiters to facilitate the hiring process are also part of the deception offering people well paying jobs while the agency refuses to pay the broker fees. Most of these recruitment agencies will ask for exorbitant amount of money as their fee and will continue to charge more as the employment process moves forward. According a study done by the UNDOC low skilled workers are most vulnerable to these recruitment fees. They tend to pay a higher percentage of job-matching fees than higher skilled workers. Thus makes it harder for them to bargain for better wages and working conditions.

Summer or part time jobs are popular with teens looking to make some money over the break or to save money for a car or some other personal necessity. Help wanted ads posted on poles, trees, or billboards with little to no information trying to persuade people with just a very brief job description, a high salary and a phone number. These are linked to both forms of human trafficking, sex and labor. These jobs are looking to attract young people and adults to force them into trafficking rings with no real job opportunity in sight. These signs are everywhere all over the country and it’s not just foreign nationals responding to them, it’s US born citizens as well. Part of the reason for this problem is that the job market in the US has become so tight and at times unattainable that people have become desperate and are willing to do anything to be able to pay rent, a mortgage, food and outstanding student loans, hospital bills and credit card debt. Our capitalist society has caused some people to have a PTSD reaction to not becoming homeless and wanting to be able to take care of their children without the fear of being unemployed. This is a breeding ground for traffickers of all kinds. They are the ones that are really capitalizing off of this economy.

These scammers have also taken over online job search engines such as : Indeed, Ziprecruiter, Monster and even Linkedin. Once you put your profile out there a barrage of fake jobs and recruiters begin contacting you with positions that don’t even match your resume while telling you how perfect you are for the job. Techincal recruiters find your email and begin sending you job postings for high paying contract tech jobs. These positions are usually 6-12 months at a time. This can be very daunting for people who really need a job and have their time wasted by these imposters. Some recruiters will even go so far as to use a big name corporation to make you think they are legit. Fortunately some of the big companies will catch on and post on their website about these deceptive hiring practices but not all of them. It’s ultimately is up to the job seeker to be smart and know what they are looking at and do as much research as possible to make sure what they are applying to is real and legal.

Being employed in the US is becoming more of a privilege and not a right as with everything else. Even if you are not that privileged make sure your rights are not violated and your life isn’t at risk. Labor trafficking is a very real issue and it can ensnare anyone if they don’t know the signs. Before you look for that dream job, educate yourself on the nightmare you can have happen before you get there.

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