As I was sitting there listening to the passionate advocacy, I heard the word sustainability.  It is a word that is being used by survivors and I support that 100%. This is the mission of BeaSister2aSister and the vision is to give survivors complete self sustainability. The idea of sustainability is not just something being said in the United States but in other countries around the globe. This is a crucial step for any survivor once they have steadied themselves and are ready to move on. This is the ONLY way to keep them from being re-victimized and re-trafficked. If they do not have a means to take care themselves or their children they are at risk for falling back into the hands of pimps and labor traffickers. It’s understood that not all survivors may be ready for that and we know this. Young women and men who have been victims of trafficking have most likely suffered severe PTSD and are having a hard time functioning. This is where we need more social workers and therapists that are highly trained in dealing with people who are experiencing high levels of PTSD. It has been said that female victims of trafficking and even domestic violence experience the same torture as a prisoner of war would. The same tactics that are used in the military are used on victims of trafficking and domestic violence.
The unfortunate reality it that when people hear you are a survivor right away they’ve already put you in a category.  If it’s a non profit or NGO you are expected to advocate for free and be at their beck and call. If you are trying to get a decent paying job it can be challenging as a survivor when you don’t have the right support and encouragement. If survivors are going to be used as advocates for NGOs, non profits and government agencies they need to be sustained financially. It’s not a good feeling for anyone to know that they may not be able to pay their bills, eat or have a place to live. These are basic rights that no one should be denied because of a past situation. It’s a human right.
I actually had someone question the self sustainability that BeaSister2aSister offers survivors. Not understanding the meaning of it which was interesting to me because how is it that a survivor that may or may not have a lot of education understand it but a woman who is a professor can’t. Maybe this person has never had to think about where her next meal was coming from or if she will be able to pay her bills and have a place to live. When you are dependent on another person or entity to provide you a “life”, it’s pretty difficult to learn how to survive without them. If you’ve never learned how to provide for yourself how do you think you would fare on your own? Sometimes people need to learn how to be independent because they’ve never had that freedom or it was taken away from them and they have to learn how to be independent again. To depend on themselves, earn their own money, buy their own food, pay bills and rent an apartment. Most of it is financial sustainability-the most important thing that everyone needs to feel secure in their life.
It’s really a very simple concept. Survivors are not decorations or ornaments to policies and legislation to make it look legit or serious. They cannot live on free advocacy or complimentary speaking engagements, they need something permanent that will sustain their lives. If they are not self sustainable, they will not be able to advocate or write policy or be on a government task force because they will be in a shelter or back on the streets. We need and can do better for them.
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Samantha Inesta
Founder/Executive Director
BeaSister2aSister